A Nigerian man has opened up about his painful marital experience, revealing how what began as a dream union quickly turned into a nightmare after his wife’s pregnancy.
According to him, his wife was everything he ever wanted in a woman — soft-spoken, humble, respectful, and, as she claimed, a virgin. “My wife was the perfect woman in my eyes,” he said. “She always told me I was the one who deflowered her. I saw her as the kind of woman every man prays for.”
He explained that he worked tirelessly to marry her, even borrowing money to fund their wedding because he believed their union would attract divine blessings. “I thought building a life with her would bring favour and happiness,” he added. “But little did I know, I was walking into the worst chapter of my life.”
The man recounted that the first few months of marriage were peaceful and filled with joy. However, things began to change shortly after his wife became pregnant and they moved into their new home. “The first thing I noticed was…” he said, hinting that troubling behaviors and emotional distance began to surface.
He stated that the transformation was sudden and unexpected, leaving him confused and heartbroken.
The man’s story, shared on social media, has since sparked widespread reactions, with many users empathizing with his experience while others urged couples to seek better understanding and communication in relationships before marriage.
