A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to share her bewildering experience after her date offered her kola nut during their very first outing.
The moment, which quickly went viral, was shared by TikTok user @itsmissimaaa, who expressed shock and disbelief over what she described as an unusual first-date gesture.
In the video, the visibly surprised woman revealed that the man, who is of Igbo descent, had been acting distant throughout the date. However, the unexpected moment came when he presented her with kola nut — a traditional item in Igbo culture often used in rituals, prayers, and significant ceremonies.
“Igbo men ohhhh 😭😭😭 Kola nut on a first date is a story I couldn’t tell, I just had to film it,” she wrote in the caption.
The short clip captured her confused expression as she recorded the scene, claiming no one would have believed the story if she had merely narrated it without visual proof.
The video has since generated waves of reactions on social media, especially in the comment section where netizens had a field day with the cultural twist.
Reactions from Social Media Users
QueenVeeVibes 🌺💗:
“Bringing kola nut on a date? I’d be scared he’s trying to entice and hypnotize me fr 😭🤣😂🤣.”
Janice B:
“Girllll he’s in touch with his roots! I love it😂😂😂.”
Meshapher:
“Nothing you wan tell me na Anambra man😩😂 they are so rooted in their culture and somehow I kinda like it. As long as he’s not married you’re safe😂😂😂.”
Curvy Ella of Abuja:
“Ahhhhhh abeg oooooooooooooo ima hold him tight oooo cos who will you leave him for 😂🤣🤣.”
Cultural Symbolism or First-Date Faux Pas?
While some netizens laughed off the incident, others praised the man for proudly showcasing his cultural heritage. The use of kola nut in Igbo culture is symbolic of hospitality, respect, and connection — but for a first date, it certainly left an unforgettable impression.
As the video continues to trend, many are now debating whether incorporating traditional customs into modern dating is admirable or awkward.
@itsmissimaaa Getting my hair done on the streets of Nigeria for the first time in my life and I was NOT ready for this
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